- About the environment and yourself. You can dominate by the environment. Don't make any change or have any questions. Otherwise you can't choose everything by yourself. Be the master of yourself. You have the RIGHT to choose.
- Between things and you. You can follow the things' happened. Let the time and affair lead to you and make you to do some decisions. However you can control everything and make them go as you wish. To push forward the things go as you like. You have the RIGHT to choose.
- When you have some problems or get in trouble. You can ask for help from other people when you feel confuse. People often can help you to deal with it. . Or else, you can think about it alone and figure out with out any one's help. You have the RIGHT to choose.
- When everything does not run of your control and not as you intending. You can complain about bad things. Like a bad workman always blames his tools. Peradventure to be proactive on your bad luck. Always see the good side of on thing. You have the RIGHT to choose.
- You can follow your parents' willing to choose a major that you are not really interest in. In stead of make a plan to select what is the most suitable for my major. You have the RIGHT to choose.
- People give you opinions and suggestions. You can accept that without thinking. Or you choose to do all by myself and I can do better. You have the RIGHT to choose.
- In Chinese education system, students have to listen to everything the arrangements for parents and teachers encounter problems directly from parents and teachers, where to get help, it is very easy to develop a passive habits. Therefore, many young Chinese are not good at their own initiative in planning the growth of line, do not know how to actively seek out resources to make their own academic and life onto a higher ladder.
- On the other hand, some Chinese parents and teachers accustomed to the use of preempt the way to help children design life planning, which often makes a lot of people lose sight of their true personalities and interests, when these kids grow up, most of them will find themselves already lost in the "self-missing" in the sea of
- We must become masters of our own future, we must actively manage their academic and future career - no one cares more than you own your work and life, and no one more suitable than you manage your own life and career, and only pro-active you can find the real "self" in order to make their own road to success is always in happy!
- No matter which you choose,that is your choose. You have to be responsibility to your choices.You have the RIGHT to choose.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
You have right to choose~!
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It is no doublt that we have right to choose but I think this does not means we can push the things as we wish. Therefore everything changes soon and it may opposite to your idea or plan. Some changes may let us be unsuccessful.
ReplyDeleteI understand what you try to tell us. Everyone should guide him/herself own life. It does not mean that never listeng other's suggestion. But be confidense of your self, even at finally you can not get success. I am always proud of myself, with no reason, just because i am being myself. Why do i always follow others, it is not interesting anymore. Everyone should make his own road.
ReplyDeleteI think if you choose something, and you do not feel regret for that. Many things are changes really fast. May be you made mistake.
ReplyDeleteIf something is change, then you have to make your choice one more time and do not make
any regrets for your choice.
I do not like someone who does not know what he/she choose, and they want to their parents do for them. They can ask some advice from them. If you do not want to choose by yourself, then you are not good at your own initiative in planning the growth of line. Also you never can have Leadership. You always follow someone who wants you to do something. I hope everyone can make right choose, and make their life stronger than before!
It does impressive me that choices are the things always around us but hard to make.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was a child, my parents made my choices frequently, that was understandable and I was grateful about that. For now, Im growing up, this is the time for me to do many decisions and to choose which is right and avoid being in the wrong situations that make me regret. Sometimes, people may make mistakes on choosing, just like me, I feel unconfident and lose faith in everything. However, that is the way to improve yourself from the frustration. Im always in the situations that making choices. As to say, life like a choice to choose live.
yes, we can choice our future. No body can help us except ourselves. For example, In class, our teacher can give us the direction about knowledge, however, only ourselves can decided weather to learn or not. so as writer said:'as the master of your future"
ReplyDeleteDefinitely, everybody has right to choose their onw interested thing to carry on.Sometime, the work which is forced to do by someone else can not be completed perfectly than doing it by your interest. AS everybody has the undeveloped intelligence on themself, it is better for you to do something base on interest rather than constrain and restriction.
ReplyDeleteYes,do it your way~!!!!Do it yourself,get on your own way to your future.No matter what,nobody can control your mind or future.You have RIGHTS to make a decision.In class,teacher give us suggestion and help,however,finally,we got do it by ourselves.We control our future and if you want to make it better,you should be make right decision.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to tell you that I am not agree with you, maybe because we are from different religion. In my religion all thing depend in your faith. You have to except what Gad send to you and to understand your faith, but not everything depend in your faith you have to work hard to change it.
ReplyDeletePeople spent their whole lives on learning how to make good choices. To have a right to choose whatever we like is the goal, but sometimes we have to face many regrettable situations. Lives are not easy ever, you should pay some things to earn what you desired. As may peole said double the beauty double the pay. It`s easy to see, you are an assertive girl with ideals for pursuing a better life.
ReplyDeletewell,there are lots of grammatical mistakes which make me feel confused.I'm not sure whether I understand your opinion or not. However it's obvious that the most frequent sentence is your thesis statement. Everybody has the right to choose.Whereas,sometimes if we are unfamiliar to something so that we can not make a good decision.That's why we need other's comments.
ReplyDeleteYes! Everyone has the right to choose.
ReplyDeleteJapanese education system was similar to Chinese education system. Students had to listen to what teachers and parents said. Many children did not have a choice. However, it is changing these days. Teachers try to make choices for students. On the other hand, parents got to control their children more. That is why many Japanese children are loosing an initiative.
All of us have right to choose, and we can make our future.
To Leo,
ReplyDeleteYes! Welcome to the real world it's sucks but you gonna love it!!
I should be the master of myself.I have to choose my life,I want to choose the life style which I like.But I can not choose all the things of myself.Although it is my right,but sometimes I can not decided somethings.Because we are live in the world,we can not control the world,so sometimes we can not control ourselves.But try my best,it is my right.
ReplyDeleteHa.. You are so... I don't know how to say. I think we are much more independent than before. We can make our owe choice at most time. But you know, we need to consider other's opinion when we make a decidion. So sometimes we couldn't just do everything we want. This is what we couldn't control.
ReplyDeleteThat's amazing to write so many paragraphs which are the similar structure. I thought about Obama, "Yes, we can."
ReplyDeleteYes, we have right to choose the road of our life, because this is our life. However, being an intendent person does not mean just do things as we like, sometimes we have to admit that others' words are good for us.
Personaly, I think the best state and result is finding ourselvs and making choices by ourselves but not getting lost.
Thanks for your faith.
I am agree with you. In many cases, we just listened our parents or friends and obey them. Actully, we have choice, we could choose another way. but we are accustomed to follow. Now, we have been grown up. we should make more choice by ourself instead of follow.
ReplyDelete1. About the environment and yourself. You ARE(?) dominateD(?) by the environment. Don't make any change or have any questions. THAT IS BECAUSE you can't choose everything by yourself. Be the master of yourself. You have the RIGHT to choose.
ReplyDelete2. Between things and you. You can follow the THINGS happened. Let the time and affair lead * you and make you to do some decisions. However, you can control everything and make them go as you wish. To push forward the things go as you like(?). You have the RIGHT to choose.
3. When you have some problems or get in trouble. You can ask for help from other people when you feel confuseD. People * can OFTEN help you to deal with it. . Or else, you can think about it alone and figure out WITHOUT ANYONE'S help. You have the RIGHT to choose.
5. When everything does not run UNDER your control and not as you INTENDED. You can complain about bad things. Like a bad workman always blames his tools. Peradventure, to be proactive on your bad luck(?). Always see the good side of THINGS. You have the RIGHT to choose.
6. You can follow your parents' WILL to choose a major that you are not really interest in. INSTEAD of MAKING a plan to select what is the most suitable for YOUR major. You have the RIGHT to choose.
7. People give you opinions and suggestions. You can accept that without thinking. Or you choose to do all by YOURSELF and YOU can do better. You have the RIGHT to choose.
8. In Chinese education system, students have to listen to everything;(?) the arrangements for parents and teachers encounter problems directly from parents and teachers(?), where to get help, it is very easy to develop * passive habits. Therefore, many young Chinese are not good at their own initiative in planning the growth *. THEY(?) Do not know how to actively seek out resources to make their own academic and life onto a higher ladder.
9. On the other hand, some Chinese parents and teachers ARE accustomed to the use of PREEMPTION * to help children design THEIR OWN life*, which often makes a lot of people lose sight of their true personalities and interests. When these kids grow up, most of them will find themselves already lost in the "self-missing" in the sea of (??)
10. We must become masters of our own future. We must actively manage OUR academic and future career - no one cares more than you own * work and life, and no one IS more suitable than you TO manage your own life and career, and only BY BEING pro-active, you can find the real "self" in order to make their own road to success *!
11. No matter which you choose, that is your CHOICE. You have to be RESPONSIBLE IN your choices.You have the RIGHT to choose.
SOONER OR LATER, PEOPLE BECOME INDEPENDENT. THE JOB OF PARENTS AND TEACHERS ARE TO GROW THE POWER FOR DECISION IN THEIR CHILDREN AND STUDENTS AS THEY EDUCATE THEM. IT DOES NOT WORK IF THEY DECIDE ON EVERYTHING, AND SUDDENLY THROW THEM OUT OF THE DOOR. IT IS A TIME-CONSUMING JOB AND NEEDS PATIENT. BUT WITHOUT THAT, THOSE CHILDREN WILL BE THOSE WHO CANNOT DECIDE ANYTHING BY THEMSELVES (WISELY). THE QUESTION IS WHETHER CURRENT PARENTS AND TEACHERS HAVE THE POWER OF DECISION. I WONDER.